Acknowledgments 11
Introduction: Struggling to Leave 13
PART I: GETTING HONEST
1. What I Never Knew about the New Life 21
2. Why the Old Life Won’t Die 37
3. The Old Life Is a Dead-End Life 47
4. Where New Life Begins 59
PART II: AHA MOMENTS
5. Signature Sins 77
6. One-Track Mind 93
7. The Middle Is Miserable 111
8. Turning Points 125
PART III: THE NEW LIFE IS LESS AND MORE
9. Less Rebellion, More Obedience 143
10. Fewer Possessions, More People 159
11. Less Selfishness, More Sacrifice 179
12. Less Obsession, More Devotion 193
Conclusion: Gone for Good 213
Notes 219