Choosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start with We>Me
Ebook
Is Marriage Worth it?
Many couples say "I do" with a combination of high hopes and fairy tale fantasies—but there's a difference between the expectations of marriage and the reality of what marriage holds. Whether you're married, single, or dating, now is the time to ask yourself: What steps can I take today to build an incredible marriage for tomorrow?
With compassion and clarity, licensed counselor and relationship expert Debra Fileta shows that when we can work through the struggles of marriage, we get to experience the joys! Learn about eight powerful choices that will encourage and equip you to take your marriage from average to exceptional and find astonishing survey results from thousands of singles and couples on topics like love and attraction, sex, conflict, and communication.
A beautiful exchange occurs when you learn what it means to choose we before me. Discover practical steps that will give you confidence and courage on the adventure of Choosing Marriage.
Top Highlights
“They go into marriage with the goal of what marriage will do for them, rather than what they will do for their marriage.” (source)
“Marriage will cost you more. It will cost you something great. It will cost you a price much higher than the money you spend on a ring, or a wedding, or a cake, or a honeymoon. It will cost you yourself.” (source)
“It requires daily choices—sometimes big, mostly small, and often hard—that lead to a lifetime of love and a fulfilling marriage.” (source)
“It’s about sacrificing, serving, giving, and forgiving, and then doing it over again” (source)
“Because marriage invites you to take responsibility” (source)
"Debra Fileta writes with passion and heart in this compelling
book. She shows all of us how to overcome the inevitable challenges
of married life by making the right choices. In short, Debra
reveals how choosing marriage, every day, leads to deep and abiding
lifelong love. Whether you are single, engaged,or married, you
don't want to miss out on this profound and practical
message."
—Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, New York Times bestselling
authors of Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts
"No matter what season of marriage you are in, Choosing Marriage will offer encouragement and hope to
find even more satisfaction in your relationship. Debra's
counseling experience and biblical knowledge are woven together
with some great stories and practical advice to help every couple
learn how to experience a richer, more meaningful life
together."
—John Fuller, Focus on the Family
"When I met Debra Fileta, I was instantly encouraged—and you
will be too. Whether you're a happy couple, a couple in need of
help, or a single looking ahead, Choosing
Marriage is a tour de force for anyone seeking to achieve a
great marriage. My team and I see a lot of great marriage books—and
this is one of the best we've ever read. You'll quickly find
practical, achievable suggestions, humor, and road-tested insight
from years of working marriage therapy. Debra's focus on believing
the best echoes my own research into happy marriages, and her
advice for couples in need provides hope for those who need it
most. This is a must-read!"
—Shaunti Feldhahn, social researcher and bestselling author of
For Women Only and The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy
Marriages
"Choosing Marriage is the kind of book that
you will underline, highlight, dog-ear, reread, and then subtly
leave open on your spouse's side of the bed for them to (hopefully)
pick up and read, forcing you to purchase clean copies for your
family and friends. When we were seeking an author/speaker/expert
for a large event on marriage and relationships in California, we
chose Debra Fileta, and the attenders loved her. When college
students and young adults seek dating and relationship advice, we
gift them with a copy of True Love Dates. And now, whenever
we counsel those seeking insight and advice on marriage, we plan to
give them Choosing Marriage. It is an engaging,
insightful, and professional look into the most intimate of all of
our relationships—our marriages—that is based on Debra's clinical
expertise, sound research, and her own personal journey. For those
of you who seek to choose marriage—who desire authentic intimacy,
biblical insights, and practical ways to grow your marriage—you are
holding the best book you can find in your hands. Please wait to
highlight or dog-ear it until after you purchase it."
—Dr. Chris and Alisa Grace, Center for Marriage and
Relationships, Biola University
"Put this book at the top of your reading list and buy one for a
friend! My bride and I really enjoyed reading Choosing Marriage together. We were inspired and
challenged to have a healthier relationship and given practical
advice on how to do it. It's evident that Debra is not only a
much-sought-after national speaker but also a highly skilled
author."
—Chris Reed, Pastor to 20s/30s and Singles at Saddleback Church,
Lake Forest, California
"Debra Fileta is a gifted counselor and an excellent
communicator. Choosing Marriage is a true
masterpiece among the crowded shelves of marriage books. It is for
everyone who is married or has a future marriage on their radar.
Debra very practically walks you through changes that will
literally transform any marriage. Choosing
Marriage redefines real hope in marriage!"
—Kim Kimberling, Founder of Awesome Marriage and author of 7
Secrets to an Awesome Marriage
Product Details
- Title : Choosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start with We>Me
- Authors:
- Fileta, Debra
- Thomas, Gary L.
- Publisher: Harvest House Publishers
- Publication Date: 2018
- ISBN: 9780736973397
Debra Fileta is a licensed professional counselor and the
author of True Love Dates. A passionate speaker, she
challenges people to have a psychologically and spiritually healthy
approach to relationships. Debra and her husband, John, have been
happily married for more than a decade and have three beautiful
children.
www.TrueLoveDates.com