Five Secrets Great Dads Know
Courage. Assertiveness. Love for God. Protecting kids from bullying. These are some of the traits of great dads. In this accessible quick read, Coughlin draws on his experience as a dad, soccer coach, and leading voice in men's ministries to equip men to be the dads their kids need. He challenges men to unleash their God-given potential to raise strong sons and daughters. The perfect gift for Dad when a greeting card isn't enough.
Top Highlights
“Rabbi Shmuley Boteach says, ‘Your job as a parent is to ease that transition between the idyllic world of the sandbox and the cold world of adulthood as much as humanly possible.’6 This transition is not achieved through sequestered seclusion or bump-free living. Our kids need to see us venturing boldly into the tough side of life and handling conflict with wisdom and courage.” (source)
“These children laugh more, play more, and weep more—they’re emotionally attuned, spiritually vital, and pragmatically prepared to respond when virtue calls them to action.” (source)
“Remember that rules without relationship lead to rebellion with kids. When confronting their behavior, leave them with the impression that you are doing so not because you have nothing better to do, but because you are concerned for their well-being. You are struggling to help them create a better life for themselves. Leave them with the solid understanding that you are in their corner. You have their back.” (source)
“Our goal as dads should be to create confident and truly virtuous kids who are capable of doing more than their part in obtaining an abundant life. These children become adults who lend their strength to others and help them obtain happiness as well.” (source)
“Christian and non-Christian parents alike are raising children who are passive, pleasant, and malleable rather than innovative, proactive, and bold.” (source)
Product Details
- Title : Five Secrets Great Dads Know
- Author: Coughlin, Paul
- Publisher: Bethany House
- Publication Date: 2010
- ISBN: 9781441212511
Paul Coughlin hosts a radio talk show in southern Oregon and is the author of No More Christian Nice Guy. Paul has been interviewed by C-SPAN, the New York Times, and numerous radio and television stations across the country. His articles have appeared in many publications, including New Man, Faithworks, and Ministries Today. He has also been editor of a weekly newspaper and a radio station program director. A former Christian Nice Guy, Paul is a happily married father. The Coughlin family lives in Medford, Oregon.